Prediction? Assumption?

We always use most of our time to predict somethings. The result of the match, the question in the exam or even the thought of someone.

Though, we can't call it a prediction. Prediction, it's accompanies with fact and data. That's why we got a bunch of dude who predict the FIFA matches, the economy of the world or even the horse race.

Most of the time we are using assumption. We assume this and that, we assume here and there. What we can is only assume something so that it will go on according to our will.

There're too many possibilities and too many IF. So next time, when you deal with something, don't make any assumption or prediction. Let your fate to decide and allow affinity to judge.

There's always an exist and enter for everyone. That should be the idea in our mind whenever we confront with failure.

' When God close one of the doors, another is opened for you.'

It's not the end of the world if you get failure. Furthermore, that failure may become the stone which you can leap on and achieve your success. You don't know whether this failure is a lost or gain until the end of your life. You may lose today, but not tomorrow and days after tomorrow. Get it up when you fall down, and make sure you get up on the same spot you fall. Be stronger if the wind is blowing strongly. Be tougher, if the wall in front you is tough. Step higher if your dream is up on the sky.

'Always think before you do, think twice before you speak'.

Somehow, we just don't really practise these kind of manners. We often do and speak without interpret and filter. When the outcome is making us in a worse situation, we will blame others.

Word is more dangerous than any weapon in this world. Careful with the word because you it can hurt the others easily without noticing it. The wound causes by word cannot be cured easily and will leave a deep scar forever.

So here's my advise,

'Think before you do, think twice before you speak. Don't care after you done, don't scare after you spoken'.

That will at least make you forget the outcome of being a stupid retard who won't think before act and speak........... LOL

I'm not the kind of book worm. Not many of books I have read before. I think the right amount is 4 books. One of them is the motivation type. There's one sentence in that book makes me think out of the box.

' We, human will come together because we don't know each other. We will separate because we start to know each other.'

Since that day, I keep telling myself that when I start to know someone, it's time for us to have argument. Example, married couple often have argument and their favourite quote is ' you are not like this before our marry'.

It's so obvious that knowing each other for a long time will make us discover the bad side of that person. First we thought it's easy to handle it. However, the reality is always that cruel. You can only be patience and bare it or brave up yourself and make escape.

Everyone is the same. Friends and beloved, they are just the same. You can claim that you know someone very well, but the fact is you just haven't know the other sides of that person.

Instead of running away from the obstacles or problems, why don't we try our best to get over them? Human nowadays become more and more scared of the problems they will confront with. They only expect good things to happen on them and afraid to step into the problems and solve them.

Friendship is not something easy to gain but it's so obvious can be destroyed in just a short moment. However, there's no enemy and friend forever. You best friend can be your greatest enemy in the next minute.

If that really happen, don't run from it. Do your best to overcome that problem because it might be you who cause this change. Escape is not a good idea. Figure out why happen this kind of thing and do your best to solve it.

We are not only gaining age but also experience when time pass. Use the time wisely and also don't ruin the friendship. You need friend as much as you need your family.

For you

我坐在椅上，
爱发呆。
你呢？

何时才能看见，
美丽的
珊瑚呢？

爱，是奇妙的，
你，是美妙的，
的确。
心，是真诚的，
不虚伪，
变不去。